As I'm sitting here recapping on my previous week I find I am still being dragged into other people's drama.
Have you ever been there? I'm sure we all have, it's frustrating because it's hard to identify. Then once it's identify, how do you move forward without taking on that negative energy? You know it's coming from them but as a visual, it's like they are throwing words back on you asking why you did that? Drama comes from non ownership of thoughts, behavior, actions.
How do I identify it, how do I know I'm entering into that space?
I find myself thinking over and over ....yes which means my EGO has kicked, saying, "I'm not getting involved with their drama" or it's a statement letting you know you "seem" different and you keep saying in your head "what more do they want from me?" OR the most common is the question, "Are you mad at me?" and they have not been in your thoughts until that statement. Throwing your mind into, "what are they talking about".
It's that time when one usually turns back to their own drama. Those thoughts begin feeding our EGO. I'm writing this post to assist not only myself but others as they find themselves stepping into other people's drama :)
Families are the most obvious culprits but now that you are business owners you will get it from both! What to do is the question!
First, realize you will NEVER be rid of the EGO as long as you are alive. It's part of the human experience. It's part of that intelligence we have acquired from birth. It's the way we process energy, process words, process experiences.
As I'm reading this, this post seems vague. It might be because I am avoiding going into exact detail of when I realized I was stepping into this trap. By going into details I also understand I would be throwing out the drama for others to step into. The whole reason for this post is to give you heads up that this happens to everyone!!! not just you!
Our inquisitive natures have us already asking, "I wonder who she is talking about", "What did I say", "I ask her for the details"
Rest assured this post was not written because of one thing someone said or did. I wrote it to assist me as I continue in my journey. I have these issues and I continue to walk through them. It's not that I won't have drama in my life or be sucked into it. It's simply how often I choose to participate.
Create yourself a fabulous day!
Jody
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